Grief resilience describes the capacity to maintain relatively stable psychological functioning after a significant loss, without implying absence of pain. It is not insensitivity or denial: resilient people feel the loss deeply but preserve their capacity to function. It is the most common grief trajectory — not the exception.
Concept origin
Bonanno (2004) challenged the myth that grief without obvious symptoms indicates pathology or denial, documenting in a longitudinal study that 35-65% of bereaved people follow a resilient trajectory. "The Other Side of Sadness" (2009) popularized these findings.
Therapeutic approach
Factors promoting resilience include: quality social support, cognitive flexibility, sense of purpose, and capacity to oscillate between pain and enjoyment. Interventions can strengthen these resources without pretending that grief is "overcome" quickly.
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