MOMENTOVITAL READING LIBRARY

Seeking others’ approval

Choose the question that connects with your experience. Each article explores one part of the topic; you do not need to read them all or follow a set order.

3 articles to explore at your own pace

What a need for approval is — and why it is not vanity

What a need for approval really is, why it is not vanity, and how to tell the pattern apart from healthy kindness. With evidence.

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Why you crave the nod: where it starts and how it installs

Where the need for approval really comes from, how it installs from early childhood, and which of its four types is yours.

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Stop seeking approval without turning cold

Letting go of the need for the nod is not turning cold. How to train holding your judgment in small things and what to expect.

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